By Karla Ruzycki-Davis
Do you shop for therapy or necessity? In a day and age with so much to do and see, and buy and become it isn’t surprising that we as North American’s purchase tens of thousands of dollars per year in stuff. We never actually realize how much we have consumed until it is time to move! Why is it that while others have so little we all continue to spend like money is going out of style? Some shop for groceries, which are a necessity. Some shop for Christmas gifts, birthday presents and others just shop to shop. That’s right, shopping as a form of entertainment to pass the time. Find out if you are a good shopper or if you are shopping for therapeutic reasons that you may have never even considered before. Shopping is fun, just don’t make it all that you do for fun.
Signs that You Might be Shopping for Therapy:
1.You shop after you get really disappointed, angry or need a breather.
There is nothing wrong with going for a nice little village window shop now and then. There is a problem when you use it as a way to escape a current situation or reality. Many women in particular shop after a boyfriend has dumped them or they didn’t get the promotion they were expecting. Some do it in the form of changing their image such as their appearance (clothes, hair, shoes, accessories) and others just simply buy whatever they see. These items in some way make them feel like they have replaced something that is missing in their life and heart. Like food to some people, shopping is their comfort.
2.Shopping for Entertainment.
It’s Saturday and you’re bored, you call up a friend and go shopping for the afternoon which gets followed up with a dinner and drinks. Does this sound familiar? You intended to just window shop and found that cute pair of heels on sale and a great belt and wondered the mall with a Starbucks in hand. Then somehow after the shopping is over you are hungry and there isn’t anything appealing at home. So, what’s a girl to do? Eat out of course, and why not have a special drink to conclude another successful day of good shopping-NOT! You need to find other forms of entertainment. This is not only costly, but not healthy. Why not get in a workout or take a cooking class, do some spring cleaning or spend some time volunteering or honing that new skill you promised to follow through with. Like other forms of entertainment it allows you to take your mind off any problems and realities that exist.
3.Searching for a Purpose.
Some people truly have never sat down and determined what they want out of life, what their goals are and how to achieve them. Furthermore many are working at a job that does not fulfill them or allow them to be ignited with passion. There is then a longing for purpose in life. Many women are stay-at-home moms and are happy to be but wonder if there is also another purpose for their life. So begins the next therapy session, shopping for purpose in life. Let’s face it, when we clip coupons and look for great deals in the weekly flyers we feel empowered. We often then get it in our mind that we are going to get some great deals and conquer the stores. We now have a purpose, looking for the items on sale and others alike for a deal. It gives us something to do with our time and makes us feel a sense of reward when we come home with our bargains. Now might be a good time to re-evaluate what you want out of life and find a less-costly means of accomplishing that.
***Just remember every time you shop your credit card increases, your bank account decreases and you get nothing but a false sense of purpose and happiness. When you pick up each item ask yourself if you really need it or if you simply want it? Next, ask yourself what this item solves and if you can live without it. Most of the items we purchase because they seem like a great deal we never really needed. Think about all the items you bought and have never really used. If you got dumped, shopping might make you feel better for an hour after making your purchases but after that you are still on your own. My goal is to help people in any way that I can. I have certainly been guilty of all the above points and want to see women in particular excel in life and drop all of the unnecessary things that can often rob us of our dreams and weigh us down.
Karla Davis is the President of Restoring Order. She is a Professional Organizer, Interior Decorator as well as Public Speaker. She specializes in organizing homes, office spaces and has over 10 years of experience and success within inside/outside Sales and Marketing. Karla is also the wife of Author, Paul Davis and is currently writing two books of her own. Karla’s life mission is to positively transform the homes and lives of everyone she meets.
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